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Keep your relationship goals in mind, while being in any relationship. As you accepted to take it as your responsibility, live up to your word and fulfill the goals with all those terms and conditions. Be it a married relation, a live-in together relationship, a distant relationship, a friends with benefits kind or simple friendship between acquaintances, colleagues, neighbors, family friends or cousins whatever, any relationship flourishes when you value others and keep yourself open. Transparency, trust and consistency are really important between any two.

The most common things expected in any relationship to make it prosper are

Every relationship has its limitations, terms and conditions. You can never take anything and anyone for granted and behave as you like. Like avoiding infidelity is a common expectation in marriage, trust is the foundation for any association. A bond gets stronger when the initial promises made are kept by respecting each other all through the way.

If it’s a brother-sister relation, or with cousins the way you back each other during your tough times really matter. Be it a scolding from parent or helping an escape from a cop, every deed means something. An indirect way of hinting “we are together, whatever comes” is the way you keep up a relationship alive for years together.

Having a good co-ordination with the neighbors, family friends and colleagues at office etc. makes your day. Wishing your lift man a good day, smiling at your neighbor, greeting a little one may seem to be small things while they could bring a big difference in the mood of the people.

Having “Friends with benefits” kind of relationship is something like enjoying life with no commitment strings attached. People with FWB relation may or may not live together in a house, but their friendship levels are beyond boundaries. They usually go to any extent like having sex, trying anything fun and making out with others during their relationship too. They have no restrictions, possessiveness, commitments or rights on each other’s emotions or life. Either of them cannot have any control on the other. But both are bound to some ethically unwritten rules like not interfering with each other’s lives and not bothering like blackmailing or forcing for sex or gang bang like things, forcing to have drugs etc. It’s completely a nice mutual agreement that none of them will be into emotional attachments with each other and can stay for any days together or can leave whenever they like to.

But even in such relationships, sometimes people can’t help falling in love with the other person, which could result in feeling possessed, craving more out of relationship, making emotional blackmails etc. to keep the person forever with them. These emotional vulnerabilities make the person too blunt from inside that nothing matters to them except to keep the person to themselves. For getting what they want, they would dare to go to any extent or would destroy everything for not letting the person go away. Some could choose inhumane acts like throwing acids or stabbing the person too.

When you hold sand in your hand, making a cup like shape, it stays. But when you try to hold it really hard by pressing your fist, it drops through the gaps between your fingers. This is how a relationship should be maintained. You should hold to an extent that your presence, attention, affection and love are felt by the other person. But if try to control, show possessiveness, behave stubbornly or restrict them the magic in your bondage slips away.

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